The decision to award Prince Harry with the Pat Tillman Award for Service has ignited a firestorm of controversy and backlash, particularly from the family of the award’s namesake.

The award, which honors the legacy of Pat Tillman, a former NFL player and US Army Ranger killed in action in Afghanistan, is intended for someone with a significant connection to sports who has demonstrated outstanding service.

Mary Tillman, Pat Tillman’s mother, has voiced her disapproval, stating that she was not consulted about the decision and expressing her shock over the choice of recipient. “I am shocked as to why they would select such a controversial and divisive individual to receive the award,” she remarked. Mary Tillman emphasized that there are many deserving individuals within the veteran community who lack the resources and connections of Prince Harry, yet are making tremendous contributions.

The Pat Tillman Award for Service is part of the ESPY Awards (Excellence in Sports Performance Yearly), organized by ESPN. Historically, the award has recognized unsung heroes in the sports world. Last year, it was awarded to the Buffalo Bills’ training staff for their heroic efforts in saving a player’s life on the field.

The decision to honor Prince Harry is attributed to his work with the Invictus Games, a sporting event for wounded veterans. Despite this, critics argue that Harry’s nomination does not align with the award’s original intent.

TV host Pat McAfee expressed his discontent on his show, questioning the selection process and whether Harry truly embodies the selflessness associated with Pat Tillman. “A lot of conversation about Pat Tillman’s name, an American hero … Now there’s an award named after him, as there should be in the sports world because that is somebody who is the definition of selfless. It’s going to Prince Harry, who I don’t even think is a prince anymore,” McAfee stated.

McAfee’s co-host, Boston Connor, also criticized the nomination, calling it “probably the most embarrassing thing I’ve seen in my entire life.” The backlash reflects a broader sentiment that the award should go to individuals who more closely mirror Pat Tillman’s dedication and sacrifice, rather than a high-profile figure like Prince Harry.

This controversy taps into ongoing debates about privilege, recognition, and the true meaning of service. As the award ceremony approaches, the decision remains a hot topic, sparking discussions about who truly deserves to be honored in the name of a hero like Pat Tillman.