This Boyfriend Is Embarrassed To Have His Family Over To His Girlfriend's House — So He's Turning To The Internet For Some Help
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When two people are in a committed relationship but have very different quirks about them (anything from interests to habits), it can make or break a relationship sometimes.
Couples can be on opposite ends of the spectrum regarding things like cleanliness. That's the case for a redditor who recently discovered that his long-distance girlfriend and her family are rather messy. He is planning to bring his family to their house so everyone can meet IRL, but he's now conflicted about what to do because he's embarrassed about the cleanliness of their home. Here is more of what he shared in the r/relationship_advice subreddit:
"But, I am really embarrassed to have them at my girlfriend's house. I recently visited their home with my girlfriend and her folks for a week. It is filthy. It is not messy as items are strewn about, or water bottles and pizza boxes litter rooms. Filthy as in everything is coated in a thick layer of dirt, cleaning glasses and dishes amounts to scrubbing them gently for five seconds with an old grey sponge, and when the dog pees inside, it's cleaned with a mop that is then put back into a bucket and put outside. At the end of my week stay with them, I felt more gross than when I first got there because stepping out of the shower instantly coats your feet in hair and dirt," the OP continued.
People ran to the comment section to offer their two cents and advise this OP on what to do.
This commenter suggested everyone meet at a restaurant instead of the girlfriend's parent's house.
This person related to the situation as they went through something similar.
And this person didn't think the girlfriend's messiness was a big deal and offered some advice on how to go about it.
What do you think? How should the boyfriend handle this? Is there a right or wrong way of handling this situation? Can this couple make it in the long run? Share all your thoughts with me in the comments below!