Stella Maris, the late Nollywood actor Mr Ibu’s wife, has made her first public post since her husband died.

It was a sad day for Nollywood and the family of the late great comic actor, Mr Ibu, who died on March 2 at the age of 62.

His burial was attended by his loved ones, coworkers, and even former presidential candidate Peter Obi.

Stella, his wife, posted on Instagram two weeks after his death to thank everyone who supported her family during this difficult period.

“Today makes it two weeks since we laid my beloved husband, Mr John Okafor, (Mr. Ibu) to rest. This period has been challenging to me and my family. From the moment my husband’s illness began, it was a difficult journey filled with numerous hospital visits.

“As his condition worsened, we faced countless sleepless nights, hoping and praying for a miracle. An overwhelming sense of fear and uncertainty replaced the love and laughter he brought into our lives. Despite our best efforts and the dedication of his medical team, we lost him to the cold hands of death.”

Reacting to the post..

@ernestinaonyinyechi_edemba: “May His Grace Continue to Strengthen you.”

@mrscocowonder: “You are loved! Once again, sorry for your loss. May you be consoled.”

@ollycally: “May God strengthen you and your kids.” @ijequeen121: “It is well, may God of the widows continue to comfort, provide and guides us ijn amennnnnnn.”

@mimi_clems: “God strengthen you and your family.”

@chiluvc: “May God continue to strengthen u and ur family.”

@emekaokoye14: “Take heart God knows best.”

In other news, Frank Ileogben aka Frank Itom, a Nigerian dancer and content creator, has revealed how he was compelled to start therapy due to his sexuality.

According to him, the incident that prompted him to start therapy occurred in 2020.

In a recent interview on the WithChude podcast, Itom stated that the trouble began when his ex-girlfriend began to question his sexuality because of whom she believed to be his “gay friends”.

The content creator stated that he tried many times to avoid discussing his sexuality with her until “it messed with me and I became paranoid”.

Itom claimed that he finally went to therapy after a friend urged him, and that he felt better after three sessions.

“I was in therapy in 2020. Yes. I think what drove me to therapy was my conflicted self-image. I was not sure who I was at the time because somebody who I was with, we were dating at the time,” he said.

“She had made several suggestions about my person that I was not comfortable with. I think it first started with questions like ‘I know you are friends with this guy, why are you friends?’ I would respond and say he is a great guy.

“And we would just brush over the conversation. And then she would say ‘you know that they said this guy is gay’? I would ask what are you driving at? And one time, she will start to suggest that ‘you know if there is anything you can tell me’.

“There were times that I have had situations with my friends, guy friends who had said that guys had hit them up and I would just laugh about these things. And coming to an age where some guys were already trying to come to the DM and all of those things. I just thought ‘man go toast me, woman go toast me’, I hot. She made several of those types of comments and suggestions to say that I could open up to her.

“At some point, I began to hear voices in my head by myself that come to think about it things like going out with guys or how many guys you have slept with do not excite me. Even my guys who are talking about women I did not make friends with them. Because I thought what she was talking about… Everything does not make sense to me.

“At that period, I was battling these thoughts of why is it that they ask my friends and they do not have an opinion about the sexiest guys on earth. I thought that is how men who are straight behave… so I started to try to be a man so that I do not live up to that image of you thinking that I am gay or something, that I am not… one time, I just realised that yeah I was not confident anymore. So I went to therapy. I was slowly withdrawing from everything that I would known at the time.

“This thing happened in January 2020. By April, I was okay as it were. Broke down like maybe August or September of that same year. My therapists asked me that question and I said it had nothing to do with being queer is bad.

“So, therapy helped me. He was from the company I was working with before. So they had been coming to talk to us about therapy and why it was important at the time. I thought let me give it a time. It worked. I think it was like the third session and like I am good. And reality, I put it to the past.”