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Fostering Civil Discourse in Our Community: A Lesson for All Ages

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A concerned neighbor recently reached out to address an offensive campaign sign placed at the entrance of our neighborhood. As the president of the Homeowners Association (HOA), I was tasked with removing the sign. Upon careful consideration, I concluded that the inappropriate library campaign sign needed to be taken down to uphold the values of our community. With over 30 children in our neighborhood, it is crucial to shield them from any form of inappropriate language. Setting a standard for civil behavior is essential, regardless of differing opinions. Additionally, the sign was placed without permission on private property.


Fostering Civil Behavior in Schools

Renowned author Robert Fulghum highlights the importance of schools in teaching students how to coexist in a civil society. The foundation of civil behavior begins at a young age, with values such as sharing, apologizing, and forming bonds with others. Our interactions with those around us greatly impact our overall well-being. Schools nationwide, including San Juan Island Schools, have integrated Social Emotional Learning (SEL) programs into their curriculum. These programs aim to equip students with skills to manage emotions, communicate effectively, resolve conflicts constructively, and foster healthy relationships.


Setting the Example as a Community

It is our collective responsibility as a community to demonstrate and instill proper civilized behavior in our children and youth. While our democratic society values the expression of diverse opinions, maintaining a civil society necessitates respectful dialogue. It is possible to disagree without being disrespectful, although it can be challenging to regulate emotions in heated discussions. Imperfection is inherent in all of us, and we are continually evolving. The foundational lessons taught in kindergarten, like treating others with kindness and respect, hold true when navigating complex societal issues. Our interactions with others reflect our character, especially in the eyes of the younger generation.

In conclusion, fostering civil discourse and behavior in our community is a shared responsibility. By exemplifying respectful communication and empathy, we set a positive precedent for future generations. Let us strive to uphold the values of civility and mutual respect in all our interactions.

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