Title: Daughter in Exile
Author: Bisi Adjapon
Publisher: Ouida Books
Year of Publication: 2023
Number of Pages: 405
Category: Fiction
The relationship between mothers and daughters can be a rollercoaster ride, filled with both joyful and challenging moments, as depicted in Bisi Adjapon’s engaging novel, “Daughter in Exile.” Adjapon, known for her lively writing style, skillfully captures the intricate dynamics of this connection, blending elements of sadness and amusement that keep readers hooked.
The story centers around Lola, a resilient and strong-willed character navigating the complexities of motherhood. From living in Senegal to a journey through Ghana, the United States, and back home, Lola’s experiences encompass themes such as mother-daughter relationships, friendship, interracial marriage, religion, culture, racism, betrayal, and adoption.
The novel sheds light on the common struggles faced by immigrants, offering relatable insights for anyone who has found themselves stranded in a foreign land. It also addresses the lack of understanding among white individuals about Africans, highlighting moments that may evoke both amusement and disbelief at the genuine ignorance portrayed.
Readers may question the author’s deliberate choice to subject Lola to significant hardships, but the story unfolds with Lola finding support from unexpected friends, emphasizing that chosen family can be as meaningful as blood ties.
Adjapon skillfully manipulates readers’ emotions, guiding them through a spectrum of feelings. While the story may become somewhat predictable, Lola’s journey is marked by unexpected twists, defying initial expectations and adding depth to the emotional experience.
Despite the multitude of characters, some may fade quickly from memory while others, especially those who treat Lola poorly, leave a lasting impression. The use of Ghanaian proverbs in the chapter titles adds a creative touch, enriching the narrative with cultural authenticity.
The exchange of letters between the daughter and mother becomes a driving force in the story, revealing the writer’s emotions and adding an enjoyable element with the humorous and, at times, heart-wrenching back-and-forth between Lola and her family.
While the exact purpose of the author’s writing may not be clear, the book offers valuable lessons. Towards the end, Adjapon surprises readers with unexpected twists, adding a unique dimension to the emotional journey.
Bisi Adjapon consistently delivers delightful reading experiences, making “Daughter in Exile” an excellent starting point for those who may not typically enjoy fiction.
About the reviewer
Titilade Oyemade is a business executive in a leading organisation and holds a degree in Russian Language. She’s the convener of the Hangoutwithtee Ladies Event and the publisher of Hangoutwithtee magazine. She spends her weekends attending women conferences, events and book readings. She loves to have fun and to help other women have the same in their lives. Email: [email protected] Social: @tiipreeofficial