I slow the car down, not wanting to miss a word. The young become the ooold, and mysteries do unfoold, ’cause that’s the way of tiiime…
“That’s for sure,” Mom says, her eyes glancing out the window as the Texas landscape swishes by. “That’s a beautiful song,” she says. I turn it up.
Sarah’s voice begins a haunting build: There are not many things in life you can be sure of except rain comes from the clouds, sun lights up the sky…
Mom looks out the window and stares up at the sky. Then, when Sarah’s voice hits…and hummingbirds do flyyy, Mom responds quietly, “I have a hummingbird.”
Marcia Gay HardenMarcia’s mother was her biggest fan (left, together at the Academy Awards in 2002) SYSTEM A360
A connection stronger than time
The song hits me in the heart, as if we’re being given a lesson in how to go on with our lives, and Mom and Rose and I drive on, through the one traffic light, past the tumbleweed, feeling like we are in church already, in the car, listening to Sarah’s wise and painful voice sing out, while Mom responds to the lyrics.
Sarah sings, Winter turns to spring, wrenching the notes of spring in a halting plea. Mom says, “Yes it does,” and she whispers along with the song, “Seasons always change…”
Mom looks at me on A wounded heart will heal, and I smile at her. She smiles back. I reach across the coffee cup holder in the car, remembering orange hibiscus in a brown coffee mug, and I hold her soft, cool hand.
Wounded hearts do heal, I think. Especially with mothers who hold you tight, and braid your hair and caress your heart with gentle counsel.
I see Rose in the rearview mirror, staring out the window, blue above, and big white clouds blanketing the sky.
Sarah’s voice goes high to meet the Texas sky, high and wide, on Mysteries do unfold. Her voice is soaring now, at once painful and yet joyful, soaring up into the Texas clouds.
She sings “fly,” again and again, flyyyyy,flyyyyy,huuummmingbirds do flyyyy, and her voice flies away on “fly”…and Mom flies with her. She flies, right up into the sky, and holds Sarah’s hand — soaring with angels and birds and joyful voices, looking down on all the people below.
Marcia Gay HardenBeverly Bushfield was a loving grandmother to Marcia’s three children (right, together in approximately 2010) SYSTEM A360
A mother’s wisdom lives forever
Mom is laughing, her hair streaming out behind her, her golden cowl-neck ripples like gossamer wings, and she is watching herself, and me and Rose, from above as we drive to church.
“Yes, sun does light up the sky,” she says, laughing, the clouds between her teeth. She is lit up like the sun, flying with Sarah Vaughan in a big blue Texas sky.
We pull into the parking lot, and I have to wait a minute to get out of the car. Sarah knows this. She finishes her anthem.
And music, music makes me cry…
Mom smiles as we wheel her through the parking lot. She cups her hands around her now white hair so it doesn’t get messy blowing in the soft breeze; she adjusts her earrings and fiddles with the gold cross on her neck that once belonged to her mother. Then she closes her eyes, basking in the warmth of the sun.
The clouds bounce around the steeple top, the sun lights up the sky, and we go to church.
Be in the moment, now. That’s where my mother is. In the moment. Still teaching, still yearning, still loving.