10 Tsundere Love Interests Who Aren’t Incredibly Toxic
Tsundere are one of the most popular types of love interests in nearly every genre and demographic of anime, from shōnen isekai to shojo romance. There are two different types of tsunderes: Tsundere Type A and Tsundere Type B. Tsundere Type A are brash and rude to everyone, but have a soft spot for their love interest. Tsundere Type B are particularly harsh towards one character in particular, because they love them so much.
It's very easy to write a toxic tsundere. Those characters can be taxing, because they tend to go too far with their harshness. Even with proper suspension of disbelief, some fans consider the overly aggressive tsunderes to be abusive, or at least annoying. But there are many well-written tsunderes with thoughtfully developed personalities, and they don't have an abusive streak.
Tsundere characters like Love Hina's Naru Narusegawa and Kyouya Sata from Wolf Girl and Black Prince are a chore to watch.
Fakir is almost antagonistic in the beginning of Princess Tutu. He's very possessive about Prince Mytho, and speaks harshly to everyone else; he doesn't really care whose feelings he tramples over. Fakir's particularly impatient with Ahiru, Duck, but eventually, he warms up to her.
Mytho isn't Fakir's love interest, but he's one of the few people that Fakir feels strongly about. Fakir's somewhere between Tsundere Type A and Type B. Eventually, he becomes just as protective toward his eventual love interest, Duck. Fakir's surliness is forgivable because he has such a wonderful character arc, and there are very nuanced reasons for why Fakir does what he does.
A duck turned girl with magical powers must help save a prince from an unfinished fairy tale.
Shizuku wonders about whom the mysterious person is who checks out all the books in the library before she does in Whisper of the Heart. The mystery is a romantic one, and she's disappointed when she finds out just who the mysterious bookworm is. Seiji once made a flippant remark to Shizuku, which she took very personally.
Shizuku's prickly towards Seiji, convinced that he was trying to make fun of her and her writing. She's not a tsundere just for dramatic effect, but because she misunderstands Seiji. Seiji takes the first opportunity that he can to reassure her that that wasn't his intention. Once Shizuku lets her guard down, she finds that Seiji is a very warm and affirming person. She softens as the two of them fall in love over their artistic pursuits.
A love story between a girl who loves reading books, and a boy who has previously checked out all of the library books she chooses.
Inuyasha is a beloved isekai classic, but it's got some uncomfortable storylines, from the Kikyo-Inuyasha-Kagome love triangle to Miroku's womanizing.
Kagome doesn't know much about the new world she falls into from the well in InuYasha. She's greeted by a surly dog yokai named Inuyasha who's alarmed by how much she looks like his lost love, the priestess Kikyo. Kagome and Inuyasha have a tsundere-tsundere romance, but they are both different tsundere subtypes.
Inuyasha is rude and off-putting to everyone. He's even rude to Kagome, but he does have a soft spot for her and Kikyo. Kagome is a far more reasonable brand of tsundere; it's her default to be kind and patient with others. Inuyasha pricks Kagome's temper to no end, though. She's not rude just to be rude to him. She has every right to stick up for herself when he gets dramatic with her.
A teenage girl periodically travels back in time to feudal Japan to help a young half-demon recover the shards of a jewel of great power.
Faye Valentine is a lover girl in Cowboy Bebop, but she's been burned by love one too many times. Her former lover helped ruin her life, and is a huge part of what led her to joining Jet Black's crew on the Bebop. While she and Spike Spiegel are never officially a couple, they have some serious chemistry.
Spike isn't the most approachable hero, though. He and Faye bicker their fair share because they have two opposing personalities. Spike is cold and remote where Faye is a bit more vivacious. Though Faye can get scrappy, she has a heart of gold and wants what's best for Spike and the rest of the crew.
The futuristic misadventures and tragedies of an easygoing bounty hunter and his partners.
Tamahome has a large responsibility in Fushigi Yugi. Though he cares very deeply about Miaka, he gets plenty annoyed with her. His frustration rises when he's trying to protect Miaka or talk some sense into her. Tamahome is rough around the edges, but he has very altruistic motives.
Tamahome adores Miaka, but their relationship is rife with drama complicated further by a love triangle. Tsunderes often resist romantic feelings because they're afraid of the might of their feelings, or they're afraid of being vulnerable. Tamahome and Miaka have some classic miscommunication-fueled fights because they're both afraid of the strength of their feelings.
A girl named Miaka Yuuki and her friend Yui Hongo are taken into the book called The Universe of the Four Gods. There they battle many hardships including each other in order to become the priestess of Suzaku and Seiryuu and summon them. What they didn't expect was to fall in love and watch their comrades die.
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Sailor Moon remains an iconic anime, with Usagi Tsukino leading a team of powerful Sailor Guardians to protect the universe from serious threats.
Mamoru has a much more tsundere characterization in the original Sailor Moon anime than in the manga series or in the reboot, Sailor Moon Crystal. It adds a bit more zest to their romance because Usagi pines after the kind and genteel Tuxedo Mask, wondering who his true identity is. Interestingly enough, she pines and wonders after him, only to clash with him constantly as the civilian, Mamoru Chiba.
Mamoru finds Usagi annoying because she's loud, clumsy, and irresponsible. While all those things are true about Usagi, sometimes she just can't help but be at the wrong place at the wrong time. Fate literally throws the two eventual lovers together, and sometimes fate takes a turn for the literal and Usagi physically crashes into Mamoru on the street. Mamoru doesn't remain a tsundere forever, which is key. The more he gets to know Usagi's true self, the more he admires her and shows patience with her goofy but lovable personality.
A group of schoolgirls discover they are incarnations of super-powered alien princesses, and use their abilities to defend the earth.
Shouxue must operate by very specific rules to survive in Raven of the Inner Palace. As the Raven Consort, she's meant to keep to herself and her lonely part of the palace where she serves and exorcises spirits. The solitude protects her because if people were to find out her true identity, her life would be forfeit.
Shouxue doesn't know what to do with herself when the Emperor visits her and asks for her help. She helps him, though to do so technically violates the strictures of her role as Raven Consort. The Emperor enjoys Shouxue's company, and he wants to be her friend, but his efforts are met with high walls and cold defensiveness. Not only does Shouxue not know whether she really can trust the Emperor, she's simply not used to having friends. Both the Emperor and Shouxue are kindhearted people with noble intentions, though.
The Raven Consort is a special consort living deep in the inner palace; Shouxue has the ability to use mysterious arts and will accept any favor asked of her, whether it is to find something lost or to curse someone to death.
Shojo anime have been around since the 1950s, and most tend to revolve around romance, friendship, and personal development.
Kyo Sohma is used to being the reject of a very dysfunctional family in Fruits Basket. If he doesn't look out for himself, no one will. Martial arts and mentorship from his karate master are some of the few things that have ever given Kyo comfort, affirmation, and direction in his life. Sometimes he goes too far with the martial arts, though, and tries to pick fights--especially with Yuki Sohma.
When Kyo meets the gentle Tohru Honda who always seeks friendship and understanding, Kyo's normal coping skills don't really work. Kyo's a traditional Type A Tsundere who keeps everyone at arm's distance, scaring them off with his loud voice and brash behavior. But Tohru is different for Kyo. He feels compelled to hold himself accountable and apologize to her if he's ever brash around her, resolving to do better. He's also quite protective of Tohru, the way he wished someone had been protective of him when he was a more vulnerable person.
After Tohru is taken in by the Soma family, she learns that twelve family members transform involuntarily into animals of the Chinese zodiac and helps them deal with the emotional pain caused by the transformations.
Guts crashes into Griffith and Casca's life like a bat out of hell in Berserk. He's a young, defensive, and prideful upstart with a sword, and Griffith sees potential in him right away. He asks Guts to join the Band of the Hawk, which is unsettling to his right-hand warrior, Casca, to say the least.
Casca is very terse and strict with Guts. It's not her job to be kind to him, but she also feels like he didn't do much to earn his place in the Band of the Hawk. He also makes decisions based on his intuition rather than logic, and she has far more tactical experience than he does. It's understandable that she would find him annoying, in that sense. But as Guts gains the Hawks' respect, he also earns Casca's trust. Guts has good intentions, and Griffith is right to think that he has amazing potential as a warrior and leader.
Guts, a wandering mercenary, joins the Band of the Hawk after being defeated in a duel by Griffith, the group's leader and founder. Together, they dominate every battle, but something menacing lurks in the shadows.
San is a devoted soldier of the forest in Princess Mononoke. She learned the best from her fierce wolf mother, Moro. It's understandable that she completely rejects humanity because she's only ever seen the worst parts of it. Her human parents abandoned her as a child to save themselves, and her human neighbors systematically destroy her forest home and fellow animal allies.
Ashitaka throws a wrench in things, challenging San's world view. Not only is he a good man, he challenges San to see with eyes unclouded by hate. San reacts against Ashitaka at first, lashing out at him and trying to convince herself that she hates him. San doesn't hate Ashitaka though, because deep down she knows she has no reason to. She's just a person who has a just cause and is in a lot of pain. San learns how she can still fight for the peace of her forest without sacrificing her body and soul to hatred.
On a journey to find the cure for a Tatarigami's curse, Ashitaka finds himself in the middle of a war between the forest gods and Tatara, a mining colony. In this quest he also meets San, the Mononoke Hime.