Have you ever gone to a meeting or a large gathering and noticed there's always this one person whose mere presence commands attention, silencing everyone in the room? The moment this magnetic individual, often a femme fatale, steps into the room, the chatter fades, heads turn, and the whole atmosphere just seems to have completely transitioned. It's as if all eyes are drawn to her.

While it can take some time to master the art of making a powerful entrance (like the main character in any movie), it's certainly not impossible. With a few easy steps and consistent practice, anyone can learn to embody that captivating presence and reveal their inner Marilyn Monroe.

Here's how. 

Always stand tall

Maintaining a good posture is one of the most crucial steps to having that commanding aura. Make it a habit to walk with your head held high and your shoulders straight. Move with intention and grace, and of course, be confident.

Intentional dressing

If you can recall every person you thought had a compelling personality, you'll notice how not one of them ever dressed up for an important occasion without purpose. The power of dressing is quite real. It takes no more than 10 minutes to put together an outfit that complements your body type, allows you to be comfortable in your own skin, and gives you the confidence you need.

Presence of mind and awareness

Building self-confidence might seem effortless for some, but it's important to understand that it often requires a lot of hard work. Many people appear naturally confident because they have invested time and effort into building their self-esteem. So, how does one build their confidence over time? 

Picture this: you're about to head out for an important work dinner with several influential individuals. What you need to do is sit down and do your research about all those attending. This will help you engage in more personalised conversations by understanding who these people are and what they actually do. Not to mention, doing your homework and getting to know about these people boosts your confidence, making the task of approaching and interacting with them much easier.

Try to be more involved

We get it, pulling out your phone to avoid awkward moments at social gatherings can be quite tempting. But let’s be honest, pretending to text or typing random numbers into your calculator isn’t the most charismatic move. It is important to be engaged with your surroundings in order to master the art of magnetism. Yes, standing alone in a room full of strangers can be nerve-wracking, but it is far better to approach the people around you. Once you leave that awkwardness behind, you’ll come to realise that striking up conversations with a stranger is not that bad. In fact, it makes you appear friendly and outgoing.

Don’t steal those eyes!

Nothing is more powerful than looking straight into someone’s eyes when talking to them. It might feel intimidating at first, and you may feel like breaking eye contact, but trust us, it's best not to. Never forget that maintaining good eye contact with someone as you speak to them sparks an instant connection, and you will come off so much more captivating and magnetic to them this way.

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