Here are some signs that may indicate someone is wasting your time in a relationship:
1. Lack of commitment: They avoid making long-term plans or commitments, leaving you uncertain about the future.
2. Inconsistent behavior: Their actions and words don't align, causing confusion and mixed signals.
3. Emotional unavailability: They're not open or responsive to your emotional needs, leaving you feeling unheard and unsupported.
4. Disrespectful behavior: They consistently disrespect your boundaries, feelings, or time.
5. Lack of effort: They don't put in effort to spend quality time with you, resolve conflicts, or work on the relationship.
6. Only reaches out when convenient: They only initiate contact when it's convenient for them, not considering your needs or feelings.
7. No meaningful conversations: Conversations are superficial, lacking depth and substance, indicating a lack of genuine interest.
8. Avoids intimacy and physical affection: They show little interest in physical intimacy or emotional closeness.
9. Frequent canceling or rescheduling: They frequently cancel plans or reschedule at the last minute, disregarding your time and plans.
10. You feel unhappy, anxious, or uncertain: Your intuition tells you something is off, and you feel unhappy, anxious, or uncertain in the relationship.
Remember, relationships should be based on mutual respect, trust, and effort. If you're consistently feeling unheard, disrespected, or uncertain, it may be time to reevaluate the relationship.